I enjoy sports.  I enjoyed playing sports.  I enjoy watching and coaching sports.  Sports taught me so many lessons about life that could not be learned in a classroom. I look back with gratitude for the priceless instruction I received from sports.

Now, as a parent, I love seeing my kids light up on the field. The sweat, the effort, the teamwork—it’s all part of helping them grow. I get why we sign up. But there’s another side to this coin:  the endless pull to join in yet another league, travel team, and tournament. Lately, I have found myself pausing to wonder: what’s the end game here?”

Life’s Endgame
I’m not the first person to ask this question. Over two thousand years ago, the author of the wisdom book, Ecclesiastes, wrestled with the same thing.  He experimented with living for short-term gains like work, pleasure, and success but ultimately concluded that these pursuits were like chasing the wind.  After much soul searching, he reached this conclusion:

"Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man." (Ecclesiastes 12:13)  

In other words, life is best lived when God is the endgame.

Applied to sports, Ecclesiastes urges parents to play the long game. In 20 years, what will matter more—how many goals your child scored, which travel team they made, or whether they treasure Christ? What’s the endgame toward which you're parenting?

What’s the Big Deal?
You might say, “The window to play sports is small, so I want my child to make the most of it.” I get it—and in a way, Ecclesiastes would agree. Life is short. Enjoy the gifts God gives—including sports. But not at the expense of your soul.

Ecclesiastes reminds us: eternity is long. So, we’d better prepare for it. The wisdom here is this: don’t make foundational what was meant to be extracurricular. Today’s culture often flips that script—treating sports as essential and faith as optional.

As a pastor, I’ve seen a growing trend—parents who rationalize putting sports ahead of faith with this line: “Faith will always be there, but sports won’t.”  Here’s my response:  If faith is on the bench now, don’t expect it to be in the game later. Parents, we must make sure faith doesn’t ride the bench. It must take the field in the game of life—now.

How to Keep Faith Central
Here are a few practical ways to make sure faith is playing an active role in your family’s life.

1. See the Big Picture

Sports are not the end; they’re a means to an end. They can be powerful spaces for character formation, community connection, and even mission. But they must remain in their proper place.

2. Examine your schedule.
Like a ship, every person and family have a limit to the load they can carry. If your home feels constantly overloaded, then you may want to clear the deck! No one will do this for you. No one will make you less busy. Stop complaining how busy you are start doing something about it.  Check out this resource to lighten your load.

3. Learn to say “no.”
No team or tournament schedule should run your child’s life. You are the parent. Set boundaries. Stick to them. Say no.

Personal note: I recently said “no” to a summer basketball league because my family needed a break after a hectic season. It wasn’t easy—but it was right.

4. Guard weekly worship.
Make weekly worship a family priority. Missing occasionally isn’t a problem. But if sports consistently bump worship off the calendar, it’s time to re-evaluate.

5. Prioritize youth group.
Give your kids a team of teens who love and serve Jesus. Youth group isn’t just fun—it’s formation.

6. Reframe “FOMO” (Fear of Missing Out)
Yes, I want my kids to have fun and make memories—including through sports. But I also don’t want them to miss out on moments that shape their souls. Wise parents don’t just create fun memories—they create faith-forming ones that matter forever.

Parents, life is short—and so is our window to guide and influence our children. Don’t just aim to raise athletes. Aim to raise disciples. When it comes to parenting and sports, choose wisely—and focus on the right endgame.

Further Reading
In the Arena:  The Promise of Sports for Christian Discipleship by David E. Prince
Overplayed:  A Parent’s Guide to Sanity in the World of Youth Sports by David King and Margot Starbuck

Hope in the Face of Anxiety: Finding Strength in Christ's Resurrection

   In our modern world, anxiety seems to be an ever-present companion for many. We live in what could be called an "anxious age," where uncertainty and fear often cloud our minds and hearts. But what if there was a source of hope so powerful that it could overcome even the deepest anxieties? What if the answer to our troubled hearts lay not in self-help techniques or positive thinking, but in an event that happened over 2000 years ago?
   
   The resurrection of Jesus Christ is often viewed through a narrow lens – simply as our ticket to heaven when we die. But its significance reaches far beyond that, offering hope and strength for our daily struggles right here and now. As we grapple with the anxieties of our age, the triumph of Christ over death speaks volumes to our troubled hearts.
   
   Consider for a moment the crescendo of hope found in Romans 8:31-39. This passage paints a vivid picture of the security and assurance available to those who put their faith in Jesus. It centers on two profound truths: "no condemnation" for those in Christ, and "no separation" from God's love. These aren't just theological concepts; they're lifelines for the anxious soul.
 
   Anxiety often manifests as a series of "what ifs" – nagging doubts and fears about potential scenarios. But the resurrection of Christ provides answers to these anxious questions:

   What about adversaries? The text boldly asks, "If God is for us, who can be against us?" (Romans 8:31). When we shift our focus from those who might oppose us to the God who is for us in Christ, our perspective changes dramatically. The One who surrounds us also surrounds our enemies.

   What about accusations? "Who shall bring any charge against God's elect?" (Romans 8:33). In Christ, we are justified – declared righteous before God. No accusation can stick because our standing is based not on our performance, but on Christ's finished work. Even now, Jesus intercedes for us at the Father's right hand, silencing every accusation.

   What about afflictions? "Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? Shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or danger, or sword?" (Romans 8:35). Life will bring suffering, but in Christ, we have a buoy in the storm. We are "more than conquerors" not through our own strength, but through Him who loved us.

   What about powerful authorities? "For I am sure that neither death nor life, nor angels nor rulers, nor things present nor things to come, nor powers... will be able to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord" (Romans 8:38-39). Even the mightiest earthly or spiritual powers cannot sever our connection to God's love in Christ.

   This triumphant hope isn't just a nice idea; it's a transformative reality. It challenges the prevalent notion that the answer to our anxieties lies within ourselves. The self-esteem, self-made, self-help, and self-love movements of recent decades haven't alleviated our collective anxiety. They've often contributed to it by placing the burden of navigating life squarely on our own shoulders.

   The message of the resurrection offers a different path. It invites us to trust not in our own limited strength, but in the triumph of Christ. Romans 10:9 lays out this invitation clearly: "If you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved."

   This salvation isn't just about the afterlife. It's about experiencing "no condemnation" and "no separation" right now. It's about being filled with the presence of God's Spirit, who empowers us to face life's challenges. It's about possessing an unshakable hope that no trouble can ultimately triumph over us.

   This is the hope we're invited to embrace – not a vague optimism, but a concrete assurance rooted in a historical event and a living person. Jesus is alive, and because He lives, we can face our anxieties with courage. No matter what challenges come our way, if our hope is in Jesus, we can trust in the triumph of His resurrection.

Hidden Figures of Christmas: Finding Hope in Hopeless Situations
   As the holiday season approaches, we often find ourselves revisiting the familiar characters of the Christmas story - Mary, Joseph, the shepherds, and the wise men. But have you ever considered the hidden figures that play crucial roles in this timeless narrative? One such figure is Zechariah, the father of John the Baptist, whose story offers profound insights into faith, hope, and God's ability to breathe life into seemingly hopeless situations.
   Zechariah's tale begins in a time of silence. For 400 years, God had not spoken to His people through prophets or visions. It was in this context that we meet Zechariah and his wife Elizabeth, both described as righteous and blameless in God's sight. Yet, despite their faithfulness, they faced a deeply personal struggle - they were unable to conceive a child, and both were well advanced in years.
   In ancient times, childlessness carried a significant stigma. Many assumed it was a punishment for sin, though the Bible clearly states this wasn't the case for Zechariah and Elizabeth. Beyond the emotional toll, their situation also posed practical concerns about future security, as children were often responsible for caring for their aging parents.
   Despite their disappointment, Zechariah continued to serve faithfully as a priest. This dedication serves as a powerful reminder for us today. How often do we withdraw from serving God when our prayers seem to go unanswered? Zechariah's example challenges us to remain faithful, to keep showing up, even when circumstances don't align with our expectations.
   One day, while performing his priestly duties, Zechariah was chosen by lot to enter the sanctuary and burn incense - a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. As he carried out this sacred task, symbolizing the prayers of God's people rising to heaven, something extraordinary happened. An angel appeared, bringing a message that would shatter 400 years of divine silence: "Do not be afraid, Zechariah, for your prayer has been heard."
   Can you imagine the rush of emotions Zechariah must have felt? After years of unanswered prayers, God was not only listening but responding in a miraculous way. The angel announced that Elizabeth would bear a son, to be named John, who would become a pivotal figure in preparing the way for the Messiah.
   This moment reminds us of an essential truth: God hears our prayers, even when we feel He's silent. Sometimes, in His wisdom, He may delay His answer or respond in unexpected ways. But He is always listening, always working, even when we can't see it.
Zechariah's initial reaction to this news was doubt, which resulted in him being struck mute until John's birth. While this might seem harsh, it serves as a gentle warning to us: when God speaks, we should listen and believe, even if His promises seem impossible from our limited perspective.
   The story of Zechariah isn't just about one man's personal miracle. It's a testament to how God can breathe hope into hopeless situations on a grand scale. John the Baptist would grow up to be the forerunner of Jesus Christ, preparing the way for the hope of the world.
In our own lives, we often face situations that seem hopeless. Maybe it's a broken relationship, financial struggles, health issues, or a sense of purposelessness. The message of Zechariah's story is clear: don't give up hope. The God who breathed life into Zechariah and Elizabeth's situation is the same God who can bring hope to your circumstances today.
But how do we maintain hope in the face of despair? The key lies in "breathing in" what God has "breathed out" - His Word. Scripture tells us that "All Scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness" (2 Timothy 3:16-17). When we immerse ourselves in God's Word, we find the strength and encouragement to persevere through difficult times.
   Consider the Psalms, particularly Psalms 42 and 43. Here, we see a beautiful example of speaking truth to our souls in times of distress. Instead of just listening to our doubts and anxieties, we're encouraged to actively speak hope and faith to ourselves. "Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise him, my Savior and my God" (Psalm 42:5).
   This practice of speaking truth to our souls is a form of emotional and spiritual maturity. It acknowledges our feelings while not allowing them to have the final say. Instead, we choose to anchor ourselves in the unchanging promises of God.
Remember, hope isn't about denying the reality of our circumstances. It's about trusting that God is working even when we can't see it. As the prophet Isaiah reminds us, "Those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint" (Isaiah 40:31).
   The story of Zechariah teaches us that God often works in hidden ways, through seemingly insignificant people and unlikely circumstances. It encourages us to remain faithful in our service to God, even when we don't see immediate results. It reminds us that our prayers are heard, even when the answer is delayed. And most importantly, it assures us that God can breathe hope into the most hopeless of situations.
   As we navigate our own challenges and disappointments, let's draw inspiration from Zechariah's story. Let's choose to keep showing up, to keep praying, to keep believing. Let's immerse ourselves in God's Word, allowing its truth to renew our minds and strengthen our hearts. And let's be ready for God to work in unexpected ways, bringing light to our darkness and hope to our despair.
   In the words of the beloved Christmas carol, "God is not dead, nor doth He sleep; The Wrong shall fail, The Right prevail, With peace on earth, good-will to men." May this truth resonate in our hearts, not just during the Christmas season, but throughout all the seasons of our lives.

   I remember the Blizzard of ’93, stuck in Shippensburg at the District 3 Wrestling Championships. I’d already been eliminated, and the storm trapped our team, making me feel like I was a world away from where I wanted to be. Like Dorothy from The Wizard of Oz, all I could think was, “I just want to go home.” Sometimes, as Christians, we feel that same longing for home—a place that feels more familiar and aligned with who we are in Christ.
   Peter’s words in 1 Peter 1:1-4 and 2:9-10 speak directly to that feeling. He wrote to early Christians scattered in foreign lands, feeling the discomfort of a society that didn’t share their values. They faced rejection and pressure to conform to the ideals of a culture that didn’t understand or accept their faith. In many ways, it’s a feeling that resonates today. Our landscape has changed, and we, too, can feel like we don’t belong. We’re “not in Kansas anymore.”
   But Peter’s response wasn’t to encourage them to fight for a place of influence or to retreat in defeat. Instead, he reminded them of their true identity. They weren’t mere settlers trying to carve out a space for themselves; they were chosen exiles, a “royal priesthood” and a “holy nation,” with a purpose given by God. This wasn’t a temporary identity or one that depended on their social standing—it was securely anchored in God’s eternal plan and His mercy.
   Peter urged them to see their place in God’s larger story, reminding them that they, like Abraham, Israel, and even Jesus, were part of a long line of God’s pilgrim people. Living as exiles wasn’t a punishment; it was a calling to a higher purpose and an inheritance beyond anything this world could offer.
   So, what do we do when we feel that we don’t belong? We live like pilgrims, not partisans, knowing that our true home—the great celestial city—is still ahead. Until then, we walk this path with the honor and identity God has given us, leaning on Him for grace and peace.

   As the leaves begin to change and the air grows crisp, we find ourselves at that familiar crossroads—election season. It’s a time when opinions run hot, and conversations can quickly veer into fiery debates. The political landscape can feel overwhelming, but there’s a comforting truth nestled in the pages of Philippians that can help us navigate these turbulent waters: we are citizens of heaven first and foremost.
   Picture the bustling streets of Philippi, a proud Roman colony, where flags flew high and patriotism ran deep. The people were fiercely loyal to their earthly citizenship, much like many of us today. They understood the weight of their civic duty, but the Apostle Paul gently redirects their focus. He urges them—and us—to prioritize heavenly citizenship over earthly affiliation. This doesn’t mean we disengage; rather, we engage as ambassadors of Christ, reflecting His love and humility in all our interactions.
   As we cast our votes and engage in discussions, let’s remember to embody a Christ-like posture. Instead of exploiting power or resorting to name-calling—two tempting pitfalls during an election—let’s follow Christ’s example of servanthood and humility. We are called to stand firm in our faith, united in spirit, and ready to share the hope that transcends party lines.
   But how do we keep our sanity when the noise grows louder? Paul offers us a prescription for peace. In Philippians 4, he encourages us to pray and ponder. When anxiety creeps in, we can take a moment to breathe deeply and bring our concerns to God. This simple act of prayer can guard our hearts and minds, allowing us to focus on what is true, honorable, and praiseworthy.
   So, as we navigate this election season, let’s recalibrate our perspective. May we look not to the temporary outcomes of an election but to the eternal truths of our faith. By living as heavenly-minded citizens, we can hold fast to our peace and purpose, regardless of the results. After all, our ultimate allegiance lies not with a political party but with the one who has already won the victory—Jesus Christ.

   The stains on my favorite living room chair used to drive me crazy. No matter how hard I scrubbed, they just wouldn’t come out. So, I did what any desperate person would do—I covered them up with a cozy blanket. The chair looked fine, but the stains were still there, hidden just beneath the surface.
   Isn’t that what we often do with our own lives? We try to scrub away the guilt, the shame, the memories of mistakes, but they never seem to disappear completely. Instead, we cover them with good deeds, hoping no one notices the stains underneath. We think that if we do enough good, we’ll finally feel clean.
   But in Titus 3:4-8, Paul reminds us of a hard truth: we can’t clean ourselves. “He saved us, not because of the righteous things we had done, but because of His mercy.” No amount of good works can wash away the deep, internal stains caused by sin. Only Jesus can do that.
Imagine trying to clean something with muddy water. It just makes the mess worse, right? Our own efforts to scrub away our spiritual dirt are like that—filthy rags trying to fix a deeper problem we can’t reach.
   But here’s the good news: God doesn’t ask us to clean ourselves up. In His kindness and love, He offers us a different kind of washing—a cleansing that comes from the Holy Spirit. Through Jesus’ sacrifice, where sin left a crimson stain, He washes us white as snow.
Baptism is a beautiful symbol of this truth. It’s not the water that cleanses us; it’s Jesus. Baptism is our way of publicly declaring that we are clean in Christ. So, the question is—are you?

   Have you ever noticed how growth often happens in the most uncomfortable moments? No one really likes discomfort. We try to avoid it at all costs. But, if we’re being honest, it’s often in those seasons of discomfort that God works the deepest in us—whether it’s a health scare pushing us toward a better lifestyle or a challenging situation that causes us to rethink how we’ve been living. Discomfort, though hard, is often where transformation begins.
   This idea hit home for me during our church’s latest sermon in the series, Politics of the Lamb. I’ll be real—it wasn’t the easiest message to sit through. I get it. It feels unsettling, like a plow cutting through the hard ground of our souls, forcing us to confront some tough truths. But maybe that’s the point. Maybe God is pruning us, as Jesus said in John 15, cutting away the things that keep us from truly living out His values.
   In this series, we’ve been talking about influence, which is something we’re all thinking about, especially in an election year. It’s easy to feel anxious when we see the influence of Christianity in America isn’t what it used to be. There’s this collective feeling of, "We’ve got to stop the bleeding!" And so, we rally, we vote, we push for change.
   And don’t get me wrong—voting is important. As American citizens, it’s a privilege to vote. But Jesus’ call for influence doesn’t sound like the rallying cries of Fox News or CNN. In His famous Sermon on the Mount, Jesus lays out His “Constitution” for how His followers are meant to influence the world, and it’s radically different from what we might expect.
   Jesus calls us the salt of the earth and the light of the world. Salt, in ancient times, was used to preserve, and light illuminates darkness. These are not glamorous roles—they’re ordinary but powerful. Our influence isn’t meant to come from a place of power, but from embodying the counter-cultural values of Christ: humility, mercy, purity, and peace.
   The world tells us to gain influence through power, but Jesus flips that on its head. Our call is to embody the values of the Lamb. Not to roar like lions but to shine like lights in the darkness, preserving what is good and pointing others toward the light of Christ.

Let me share with you something that’s been heavy on my heart—how faith and politics, though they often feel like they’re at odds, can actually intersect in powerful ways when we view them through the lens of God’s Kingdom. In this new series, “Politics of the Lamb,” I’m not here to tell you how to vote or which side to choose. That’s not my role. Instead, I want to challenge all of us to think deeply about how we engage politically as followers of Jesus.

The truth is, we have a discipleship problem. For too long, we’ve allowed our political ideologies to be shaped more by culture and partisanship than by the Bible. That’s a serious issue. As disciples of Christ, our primary loyalty has to be to the Kingdom of God, not to a political tribe. So, let’s ask ourselves: Are my views aligned with Jesus’ teachings, or are they just echoing what I hear in the world around me?

Look at the time of Jesus. He lived in a politically charged environment, with various factions vying for control—Zealots, Pharisees, Essenes, and Herodians. But Jesus didn’t fit into any of their categories. His message was different. He wasn’t campaigning for power or control; He was campaigning for the truth of God’s Kingdom. And that’s what we need to focus on.

One of the most beautiful things about Jesus’ ministry is how He brought together people from vastly different political backgrounds—like Matthew the tax collector and Simon the Zealot. These two couldn’t have been more different, yet Jesus united them in a mission far greater than any political agenda.

That’s our calling, too. We’re not defined by our political affiliations. In Christ, we are one. So, this week, let’s make it a priority to spend more time in God’s Word and less time consumed by political noise. Let’s realign ourselves with the values of the Kingdom, where love, justice, and humility reign supreme.

Check out the "Politics of The Lamb" Sermon Series here

   Imagine for a moment, a quiet drip, drip, drip in your kitchen sink. At first, it’s easy to ignore—a tiny leak, no big deal, right? But over time, that slow drip can leave a stubborn stain, one that grows darker and harder to clean the longer it is left unattended. This is how compromise works in our lives. It starts small, perhaps unnoticed, but with every drop, it stains our integrity, leaving us with a mess that’s hard to undo.
   Diving into what Proverbs teaches us about integrity,  focus on why stopping that drip of compromise is crucial. Proverbs 11:3 tells us, “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the perversity of the treacherous destroys them.” This verse offers us a stark warning: A life of compromise ends up compromising you.
   Integrity, at its core, is about staying true to who we are in Christ, even when the world around us pushes us to bend, to give in just a little. But Proverbs reminds us that every time we make a small moral compromise, we’re like players in a game of Jenga, pulling out one block at a time from our tower of integrity. It may seem harmless, but with each block removed, the structure becomes more unstable, more likely to collapse.
   Consider the lives of Moses, Daniel, and Jesus—three figures who chose integrity over compromise. Moses could have enjoyed the privileges of Egyptian royalty, but instead, he chose to stand with God’s people (Hebrews 11:24-25). Daniel refused to bow to a foreign idol, staying true to his faith even under threat of death (Daniel 3:12). And Jesus, in the wilderness, rejected Satan’s offers of worldly power, holding fast to His divine mission (Matthew 4:8-9). Their lives show us that integrity isn’t just about the big moments; it’s about the small, daily decisions to stay true to God’s principles.
   When we allow compromise to seep into our lives, it does more than just weaken our personal integrity—it compromises our testimony, our sense of security, and our legacy. Proverbs 22:1 tells us that a good name, a reputation built on integrity, is worth more than great wealth. Our integrity not only reflects on us but also on the One we represent—Christ. And when we live without compromise, we walk securely, knowing we have nothing to hide, nothing to fear.
   So, what kind of legacy are we building? A life of compromise is a life that eventually crumbles. But with Christ as our foundation, we can build a legacy of faithfulness, one that will stand the test of time.
   I challenge you to examine where compromise may have started to drip into your life. Remember, we have a Savior who specializes in rebuilding what’s broken. By His power, we can conquer the compromise and live lives that are whole, secure, and marked by integrity. In Christ, God has already given us the victory—let’s live like it.

Have you ever found yourself in a place where you wonder if what you're doing really matters? Maybe you've felt that sense of insignificance, whether as a parent, an employee, or even as a coach. It's a common feeling, isn't it? In a world that often feels overwhelming with its military threats, political uncertainties, and moral challenges, it's easy to feel small and shaken.

Let's imagine the scene in the book of Haggai 2:20-23 where God speaks through the prophet to someone who's feeling exactly that way—small in a very big world. The passage speaks to Zerubbabel, the governor of Judah, during a time when the people were rebuilding their lives after a long period of exile.

You see, Zerubbabel wasn't just any leader. He was tasked with overseeing the rebuilding of the temple, a monumental responsibility in the face of political pressures and uncertainty. Maybe you can relate to that feeling of being in a position of leadership, where the burdens can feel especially heavy and lonely.

But in the midst of their challenges, God offers Zerubbabel—and us—a message of hope. He speaks of shaking the heavens and the earth, of overturning thrones and kingdoms. It's a powerful reminder that, despite our feelings of smallness, God is at work in ways that we may not always see or understand.

When we look at the world today, it's easy to feel overwhelmed by chaos and uncertainty. But amidst the noise, God whispers to us to look up and be hopeful about the kingdom to come. Yes, the road ahead may be difficult, but we serve a Savior who has already overcome the world.

As God's chosen people, let's remember the words of Revelation 19:11, which portrays Christ as a warrior returning to conquer His enemies. We may feel small, but we serve a big God who is capable of doing great things through us.

And just as God saw Zerubbabel and declared him as His chosen instrument, He sees each one of us. We are not insignificant; we are chosen by God to play a part in His kingdom. Whether we realize it or not, our lives matter. We are called to live boldly for Christ, making bold moves for the kingdom of God.

It might mean stepping out of our comfort zones, reaching out to a friend, or praying boldly for revival in our communities. We may feel small, but we serve a big God who is capable of doing great things through us.

So, as God's chosen people, let's hold onto our unshakeable hope in the kingdom to come and live boldly for Christ right where we are. After all, in Christ, God made His boldest move. What's yours?

Have you ever bitten into an oatmeal pie, expecting the sweet memory of your favorite treat, only to find it slightly different and less satisfying? In life, disappointments often hit us similarly. Maybe you weren't healed, didn't get that promotion, or faced other setbacks. This is where discouragement creeps in—where what we expect isn't met, and we wonder where God fits in.

In the book of Haggai, we find a people discouraged by the rebuilding of the temple, comparing it to its former glory. They're disheartened, their expectations unmet. Yet, God's response isn't dismissive; it's filled with nurturing comfort. He acknowledges their feelings and then redirects their focus.

God's Comforting Presence (vv. 4-5)
In verses 4-5, God assures them of His presence. "Be strong," He declares, "for I am with you." God's Spirit is among them. This comfort is not just a warm sentiment; it's a reality that strengthens in times of discouragement. When life's disappointments loom large, the presence of God becomes our anchor, grounding us in His unwavering support.

God's Comforting Promises (vv. 6-9)
God then unveils His promises. He foretells a future glory surpassing the former, where He will shake nations and fill His house with splendor. The silver and gold belong to Him, and He promises peace in this place. These promises aren't mere words; they're assurances of God's sovereign plan unfolding—a plan that transcends their present disappointments.

Reframing Perspective
To defeat discouragement, we must reframe our perspective. Like the Israelites, we often base our expectations on past experiences or false assumptions about how God should work. But God challenges us to shift our focus from the appearance of circumstances to the assurance of His presence and promises.
What disappointments with God need deconstruction in your life? Maybe it's time to dismantle false assumptions and embrace the truth of His enduring faithfulness.

Applying the Lesson
For our community, Forks Community Church, the lesson is clear. Our greatness isn't in the grandeur of a building but in the indwelling Spirit of God. Let's not be disillusioned by external outcomes but rooted in God's eternal promises.

Conclusion
In defeating discouragement, we turn to the comfort of God's presence and promises. His Spirit sustains us in the midst of disappointments, and His promises propel us forward with hope. As we focus on Him, our perspective shifts, and our hearts are renewed. Let's embrace God's comforting presence and promises, allowing Him to renovate not only our circumstances but our very beings. In this, we find enduring hope and unwavering strength.

   Have you ever felt like life is pulling you in too many directions, leaving you frustrated and overwhelmed? Perhaps, like a car needing alignment, you sense that something is off—a misalignment of priorities. This feeling is all too common in our fast-paced world, where competing demands can easily cloud what truly matters.

   In the midst of our chaotic lives, the prophet Haggai's message from the Old Testament speaks directly to our modern struggles. Haggai, a minor prophet with a major impact, confronted God's people about their misplaced priorities. His words echo through the centuries, challenging us to refocus on what truly matters—living for God's glory rather than our selfish gain.
   
   Haggai's message was timely then, and it remains so today. He addressed a community that had lost heart and drifted into self-centeredness, neglecting the rebuilding of God's temple. The prophet's words cut to the core, urging the people to stop making excuses and assess their priorities.

   "Is it a time for you yourselves to live in your paneled houses, while this house lies in ruins?" (Haggai 1:4) This poignant question exposes their misplaced focus on personal comfort over God's glory.

   Likewise, Haggai challenges us to evaluate our own lives. What excuses do we make for neglecting what God has called us to do? The prophet's call to "think carefully about your ways" rings true today (Haggai 1:5). Are we too busy with our own pursuits to prioritize God’s Kingdom?

   The consequences of misplaced priorities are evident—deprivation, dissatisfaction, and a sense of emptiness despite our efforts (Haggai 1:6). Just as the ancient Israelites experienced, neglecting God's house leads to spiritual poverty.
   
   Yet, there is hope in Haggai's message. The prophet doesn't just point out the problem; he offers a solution—obedience. "Go up into the hills, bring down lumber, and build the house; and I will be pleased with it and be glorified," declares the Lord (Haggai 1:8).
When the people responded with obedience, God reassured them: "I am with you" (Haggai 1:13). This promise holds true for us today. When we realign our priorities with God's kingdom, we experience His presence and power in our lives.

   So, amidst the chaos of competing priorities, let's heed Haggai's timeless message. Stop making excuses, assess your priorities, and do what God says. Seek first His kingdom and righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Let this be our rallying cry—a thematic goal that gives clarity and purpose to our lives.

   Just as a car needs alignment to run smoothly, our lives require realignment with God's priorities to experience fulfillment and purpose. May we, like the people of Haggai's time, respond with obedience and experience the blessing of living for God's glory.

In the whirlwind of today's media, where fake news can spread like wildfire, it's easy to find ourselves lost in a maze of misinformation and uncertainty. The term "fake news" dominated headlines in 2017, seeping into our collective consciousness like a relentless storm. TIME magazine even crowned it the word of the year, highlighting the pervasive nature of falsehoods masquerading as truth.

But amidst this chaos, amidst the clamor of conflicting narratives and dubious sources, one question echoes with particular resonance: Is Easter just another tale of fake news?

As we embark on this journey of introspection, let's probe the depths of our faith and skepticism, guided by four pivotal questions.

Firstly, is the resurrection scientifically possible? In a world where faith and science often seem at odds, where the tangible clashes with the divine, we're challenged to reconcile the miraculous with the empirical. Yet, as Harvard Professor Stephen Jay Gould astutely observed in Rocks of Ages, “science cannot adjudicate the realm of God's possible superintendence over nature.” Miracles, by their very definition, transcend the bounds of scientific inquiry, inviting us to embrace a reality beyond the confines of empirical observation.

Secondly, was Jesus' death real? Delving into the agonizing details of crucifixion, we confront the brutal truth of Jesus' sacrifice. The scourging, the piercing of his side, the agony of hypovolemic shock – each element attests to the harrowing reality of his ordeal. Medical science intertwines with biblical accounts, weaving a tapestry of undeniable suffering and ultimate sacrifice.

Next, are the gospel accounts legendary? With meticulous detail and unwavering honesty, the Gospels chronicle the life of Jesus Christ, offering a narrative grounded in historical veracity rather than mythical embellishment. The inclusion of women as primary witnesses (Luke 24:1-7; John 20:1), despite their marginalized status in society, defies conventional legend, bearing witness to a truth too profound to fabricate.

Lastly, is the eyewitness testimony reliable? Memory can falter and perceptions blur and at times we grapple with the reliability of firsthand accounts. Yet, as we delve deeper into the psychology of recollective memory, we unearth a foundation of truth rooted in unique, emotional experiences. For example, we probably remember vivid details of where we were on September 11, 2001.  We remember this event because it was important, and we were emotionally involved.  Likewise, the testimony of those who bore witness to the resurrected Christ resonates with a clarity that transcends skepticism, beckoning us to heed the call of faith.

In a world driven by the pursuit of success, pleasure, and fulfillment, the concept of emptiness often remains elusive yet pervasive. Despite our relentless efforts to fill our lives with material wealth, achievements, and experiences, many find themselves grappling with an inexplicable void—a sense of hollowness that transcends outward appearances.

The transformative power of the cross, as elucidated in Romans 6, offers a profound remedy for the emptiness that plagues the human soul. Beyond its role in reconciling us with God and alleviating guilt and estrangement, redemption addresses the fundamental emptiness that stems from a life devoid of divine purpose and meaning. In a society fixated on self-gratification and superficial pursuits, the pursuit of self-created meaning often leads to greater bondage—the bondage of self-centeredness and spiritual impoverishment.

Redemption, depicted metaphorically as a marketplace transaction, signifies a liberation from the captivity of emptiness. Just as one redeems coupons for value, the cross purchases and rescues us from the futility of a life lived apart from God's design. The poignant imagery of 1 Peter 1:13-21 underscores the priceless nature of this redemption, emphasizing the sacrificial love demonstrated through Christ's precious blood.

Peter's reflection on the pre-Christian experiences of believers highlights the transformative power of redemption in reshaping our perspective on self, past, and purpose. Embracing the redemptive power of the cross liberates us from a hollow existence characterized by ignorance and spiritual bankruptcy. The recognition of our inherent emptiness apart from Christ serves as a catalyst for profound transformation—a journey from spiritual destitution to divine fulfillment.

The emptiness described by Peter isn't merely a lack of material possessions or worldly success but a profound spiritual void—a life devoid of genuine purpose and lasting significance. Despite outward appearances of success and prosperity, many find themselves grappling with an inexplicable sense of emptiness—a chasing after the wind, as Ecclesiastes aptly describes.

The solution to this existential emptiness lies not in the accumulation of worldly goods or the pursuit of fleeting pleasures but in surrendering to the transformative power of the cross. True freedom, as Peter emphasizes, is found in laying down our lives at the foot of the cross—surrendering our desires, ambitions, and fears to the reign of Christ. In relinquishing control and embracing divine grace, we discover a profound sense of fulfillment—a wholeness that transcends the temporal and fleeting pleasures of this world.

As we heed the call to surrender and offer ourselves as instruments of righteousness, we embark on a journey of profound transformation—a journey from emptiness to divine fulfillment. In embracing the redemptive power of the cross, we find liberation from the bondage of emptiness and embark on a path toward true freedom and abundant life in Christ.

   Reconciliation – a word that’s deeply intertwined with personal relationships and restoration.  From the beginning, sin fractured our relationships, separating us from God, ourselves, and each other. The remedy? The power of the cross. It's not merely theological jargon; it's the essence of healing for our brokenness.
   God, in His grace, moved towards us despite our wrongs. “While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us,” (Romans 5:6).  He didn't hold grudges; He didn’t wait for us to get our act together.  God offered reconciliation in Jesus on the cross (2 Cor. 5:18-19). As recipients of this grace, we're called to embody it in our relationships. We're to move towards those who've hurt us, mirroring God's movement towards us.
   But reconciliation isn't automatic; it requires acceptance through faith. We must trust in Christ's work on the cross for reconciliation with God. As a result, we are ambassadors of Christ who then extend reconciliation to others, reflecting the pattern set by Christ (2 Cor. 5:20).
   Being ambassadors of reconciliation means embodying the message of peace with God. It's about actively engaging in relationships and seeking to mend what's broken. Yet, it's not easy. It demands forgiveness, humility, and grace.
   Consider Bart Millard's story – a journey from hurt to healing. Despite deep emotional wounds inflicted by his angry father, Bart found redemption in forgiveness. Rather than staying imprisoned by unforgiveness, Bart made his move towards reconciliation, mirroring God's grace towards him.
   So, what's your move? Whether it's extending forgiveness, seeking reconciliation, or embracing God's grace, the power of the cross calls us to action. It's not about guarantees; it's about faithfulness and obedience.
   Remember, reconciliation takes two, but our responsibility is to make the first move. Let's drop our pride, extend forgiveness, and pursue healing in our relationships. As ambassadors of God's peace, let's reflect the transformative power of the cross in our lives.    Let's heed the call to move from hurt to healing, from brokenness to restoration, through the power of the cross.
  Make your move today!

Finding Security in God's Approval - The Power of Justification 
Imagine a town where an underground fire has been burning for decades, slowly destroying everything in its path. This is the real story of Centralia, Pennsylvania, and it serves as a powerful metaphor for the hidden flames of insecurity that can consume our lives from within.

Insecurity is like an underground fire, not always visible on the surface but capable of causing immense damage over time. It's a feeling of self-doubt, fear of disapproval, and a sense of inferiority that can rob us of our joy and peace.

The Power of the Cross
The power of the cross, particularly through the concept of justification, offers us a way to live securely in God's approval. Justification is a legal term that means God declares us righteous based on our faith in the redemptive work of Jesus Christ, not on our own efforts or accomplishments.

To live securely in God’s approval, we need to shift our reliance from our own "grit" to the grace of God. Our default mode is to justify ourselves by appealing to our own performance—our career accomplishments, educational degrees, and even our “good works.” Yet, the reality is, we can’t justify ourselves because “all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God” (Romans 3:23). We need God to justify us. According to Romans 3:24, God’s grace is the source of justification. When we are resting in God’s grace rather than our grit, we are freed from living under the burdensome notion that “you are enough.”

Believing in Christ Over Ourselves
The irony of “you are enough” is that it ultimately leads to weariness and anxiety. According to French sociologist Alain Ehrenberg, the self­-creating person turns out to be fragile and “weary of her sovereignty.” “You are enough” place an enormous burden on the self, that he or she was not meant to bear. If you seek security and approval in yourself, you will become weary because you always need to outperform yourself to seek the approval of others. Instead of providing freedom, “you are enough” leads to enslavement. To enjoy the freedom and security of the cross, we must come to the place where we recognize, “I am not enough, but Jesus is.” Through faith in the cross of Christ, we can be justified and enjoy God’s approval based upon the prefect record of Christ.

Living in God's Approval
To enjoy the approval of God we must continually bask in the blessings of justification lest we allow the flames of insecurity to reignite. The fire in Centralia began when the garbage was ignited by a single flame. To keep the flames of security from reigniting, we need to eliminate the garbage. The garbage we must eliminate is the collection of deceptive thoughts that tempt us to think that we must earn the approval of God and others. To combat those deceptive ideas, I must remind myself that I am not approved by grit, but by God’s grace. I am accepted by grace alone, through faith alone, in Christ alone. I have security rooted in the power of the cross.

Just as the fire in Centralia continues to burn, so can the fires of insecurity in our lives. But through the power of the cross and the gift of justification, we can extinguish those flames and find true security in the approval of God.

Transforming Your Marriage: Embracing God's Dream

   In a world where marriage is often painted as a fairytale ending or a Disney-like fantasy, it's easy to get lost in unrealistic expectations. But today, I want to share a different perspective – one infused with hope and grounded in the transformative power of Jesus Christ.  Our journey begins with reevaluating our expectations. I urge you to tighten them up, aligning them with God's dream for your marriage. Let me take you back to a pivotal moment in my own relationship with Tori, where unspoken expectations threatened to disrupt our harmony.
   
   Our first date centered around Chinese cuisine, but it wasn't long before an unspoken rule surfaced. Tori expected me to share my Chinese, a language she held dear. Though unintended, my failure to meet this expectation initially caused tension. Yet, through communication and understanding, we found common ground, learning to share not just a meal but also our cultural heritage. It's a reminder that transparency and compromise are key ingredients in any successful marriage.

   Reflecting on our experience, I invite you to share your own stories of unspoken expectations in the comments below. It's through these shared experiences that we can grow and support one another on this journey.

   Now, let's address two prevalent yet unrealistic marriage expectations: the Disney Marriage and the Fairy Tale Marriage. These notions promise happiness and eternal bliss but often lead to disappointment. Contrary to these ideals, God's dream for marriage is beautifully depicted in Genesis 2:18-25.

   In this passage, we witness God's loving provision as He recognizes Adam's need for companionship. Through a deliberate process, God prepares Adam to appreciate his future partner, ultimately crafting Eve as his perfect complement. It's a profound illustration of God's intention for marriage – a union designed to bring fulfillment and joy.

   But what happens when reality falls short of this ideal? When dissatisfaction creeps in, it's essential to examine our own expectations. Marriage isn't about finding completeness in our spouse; rather, it's a journey of mutual growth and sacrifice.

   Just as a threefold cord is not quickly broken, so too is the bond strengthened by the presence of Jesus Christ. He is the foundation upon which a truly fulfilling marriage is built.

      31 For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife,          and the two will become one flesh.[a] 32 This mystery is profound, but I am talking          about Christ and the church.

  Ephesians 5:31-32 reminds us that our union reflects Christ's love for the Church, urging us to emulate His selflessness and grace in our relationships.

  So, here's the challenge: be more like Jesus in your marriage. Put your spouse's needs before your own, communicate openly and honestly, and extend forgiveness as freely as it's been given to you. In doing so, you'll not only draw closer to your partner but also to the divine purpose woven into the fabric of your marriage.
 
 Let’s embrace God's dream for our marriages – a dream rooted in love, grace, and unwavering commitment.

Chick-fil-A. If you’re anything like me, just saying the name means you’re already thinking about those delicious chicken sandwiches and waffle fries. But why mention a fast food joint in a blog post about marriage? Well, believe it or not, there's a valuable lesson to be learned here.

At Chick-fil-A, when you place an order, you’re greeted with five simple words: “How may I serve you?” It’s not just about food; it’s a mindset that can transform not only your dining experience but also your relationships, especially your marriage.

The key lies in adopting the attitude of Christ, as outlined in Philippians 2:1-11. This passage urges us to emulate Jesus’ humility in our interactions with others. Whether you’re married, single, or in any kind of relationship, this principle remains relevant. Relationships can get messy, but by embodying Christ's mindset, we can navigate through the mess and strengthen our bonds.

Paul's letter to the Philippians addresses a community dealing with its own share of discord. Sound familiar? If your marriage feels a little messy right now, don’t despair. Instead, see it as an opportunity for growth. Just as Paul encouraged the Philippians to find common ground, we too can strive for unity by modeling ourselves after Christ.  So, how do we tighten our serve and strengthen our relationships? It starts with three simple steps.

Firstly, show selflessness. Selfishness is the nemesis of any relationship, corroding the bonds of love and trust. Instead, let’s follow Jesus’ example of selflessness, putting the needs of others above our own.

Next, exercise humility. Humility isn’t about thinking less of ourselves but rather thinking of ourselves less. Jesus, despite His divine status, humbled Himself to serve others. Likewise, we should approach our relationships with a humble spirit, prioritizing the well-being of our loved ones.
 
Lastly, honor your spouse above yourself. Acknowledge their value and importance in your life. Treat them with the same respect and admiration that you would expect for yourself.
But how do we put these principles into action? It’s the little things that count. Whether it’s putting the toilet seat down or simply asking, “How can I help you today?” Every small gesture contributes to a culture of service and love within our marriages. And if you’ve fallen short, don’t be afraid to come clean. Confess your faults, seek forgiveness, and rely on the transformative power of Jesus to guide you in modeling His mindset in your marriage.

Let’s strive to serve our spouses better than even the most customer-centric businesses. By embodying the attitude of Christ—selflessness, humility, and honor—we can not only tighten our serve but also strengthen the bonds of love and unity within our marriages. Remember, it’s through our commitment to serve and love one another that we truly reflect the love of Christ in our relationships.

Strengthening Your Marriage Through Honest Communication

Communication is often hailed as the cornerstone of any successful relationship, and nowhere is this more evident than in marriage.

Here’s an example from a memorable trip we made to Malawi, Africa, back in the summer of
2006. My wife Tori and I were enroute to visit her missionary parents when an unexpected bird strike forced our plane to make an unscheduled stop in Dakar, Senegal. Amidst the chaos, we faced the urgent need to inform Tori's parents about the delay. However, our attempts at communication hit a snag as language barriers left us frustrated and helpless. This experience mirrors the challenges many couples encounter in marriage—feeling like they're speaking different languages.

Indeed, communication in marriage can be difficult, but it's also essential for fostering
understanding and connection.  In Ephesians 4:25-32, we find guidance on truthful communication. While this passage wasn't specifically written for marriages, its principles are applicable to all aspects of life, including marital relationships.

                 Ephesians 4:25 - Therefore, putting away lying, speak the truth, each
                 one to his neighbor, because we are members of one another.

The crux of Ephesians 4:25 lies in speaking the truth, but not just any truth—truth infused with love. This distinction is crucial. Honest communication isn't about merely "speaking one's mind" without regard for the impact of our words. Instead, it's about constructive honesty that builds up rather than tears down.

Constructive honesty involves affirming our spouse's identity and seeking to understand their perspective. It avoids destructive speech patterns like name-calling, mind-reading,
exaggerations, and shaming, which only serve to erode trust and intimacy.  Instead, constructive speech affirms our spouse's worth and fosters empathy, mirroring the
example of Christ who entered into our world and experienced it fully. Practicing empathy allows us to understand our spouse's feelings and motivations, paving the way for deeper connection and mutual respect.

One powerful phrase that encapsulates this approach is "help me understand." These three
simple words can revolutionize communication within a marriage, facilitating genuine dialogue
and emotional connection. Ultimately, the words we choose shape the world we inhabit, both individually and as a couple. By prioritizing honest, loving communication, we can cultivate a world of love within our marriage—one characterized by understanding, grace, and mutual support.

Building a strong marital foundation takes time and intentional effort, but by committing to
honest communication, we can strengthen the bond between partners and create a tighter knot in our marriage that withstands the tests of time.

  For nearly two centuries, Beethoven's death was a mystery. The famous musician suffered from irritability, depression, and abdominal pain. His dying wish was that his illness would be discovered so that "the world may be reconciled to me after my death." In 1994, two Americans launched a study to determine the cause of Beethoven's end, and the result was shocking - lead poisoning. Just like lead slowly and quietly poisoned Beethoven, malice can quietly poison a marriage. To tighten the knot of marriage, loving spouses learn to let go of malice and be full of grace.  This isn’t a new theory from the latest and greatest marriage therapist.  It’s the sound, time-tested wisdom from the Maker of marriage.  

  Let all bitterness, anger and wrath, shouting and slander be removed from you, along with all malice. And be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving one another, just as God also forgave you in Christ.  
-- Ephesians 4:31-32

Let Go of Malice

  Ephesians 4:31 advises us to let go of malice, which includes bitterness, anger, wrath, shouting, and slander. Bitterness can be like a silent killer that poisons both our souls and our relationships. When we harbor bitterness, we harm ourselves, leading to negative self-talk, memory issues, and amplified negative emotions. Elsa from Disney's Frozen was onto something when she sang "Let It Go!" To let go of malice, we must break through toxic attitudes, hostile dispositions, and abusive speech.

Break Through a Toxic Attitude

  Bitterness poisons our souls and our marriages, much like cholesterol builds up in arteries. We must break through this toxic attitude by releasing the bitterness that hardens our hearts. Don't let silent resentment fester; instead, speak out with love and humility, addressing issues as they arise.

Break Through a Hostile Disposition

  While anger is natural when wronged, holding onto it can lead to hostility. Just as potatoes rot in the pantry when left unattended, anger, irritation, and frustration can fester and harm your marriage. Instead, draw out these emotions, examine them, and communicate openly and lovingly with your spouse.

Break Through Abusive Speech

  Our speech in marriage should be constructive, affirming, and understanding. Avoid name-calling and instead seek to understand your spouse. Constructive communication fosters unity, while abusive speech only divides and creates dissension.

  Be Full of Grace

Ephesians 4:32 urges us to be full of grace by being kind, compassionate, and forgiving, just as God forgave us in Christ. God's forgiveness sets the standard for how we should forgive in our relationships. We must choose to forgive or confess, depending on whether we're the victim or the transgressor.

If You Are the Victim
  Choose to Forgive: Forgiveness doesn't mean forgetting but rather choosing not to hold the sin against your spouse. It's essential to remember that even when hurt, God calls us to forgive as He forgave us.

If You Are the Transgressor
  Choose to Confess: Confession is vital for complete restoration. Acknowledge that your sin is primarily against God, don't rush through confession, and own your sin without blame-shifting.
Healing a marriage poisoned by malice is possible through the power of the forgiveness and grace of Christ.

  Just as Beethoven's life was cut short by slow poisoning, malice can destroy a marriage over time. But by following the wisdom of Ephesians 4:31-32 and imitating God's forgiveness, couples can revive and strengthen their relationship, allowing love and grace to flourish.

One little known line can help you live a less hectic life in 2024.

During my childhood I grew up on a country road with only a few homes.   For a short while, the windy 1.5 mile stretch of unlined road was a little-known short cut between two major thoroughfares.  Fast forward to my teen age years—the secret was out.  Commuters, as well as logging trucks, discovered Prospect Road was a fast alternate route.  The increased traffic and heavy loads took a toll on the simple roadway which wasn’t built to withstand such heavy use.

I now live in suburbia.  The wear and tear we experience isn’t from cars and trucks. The wear and tear we feel is from the lack of margin in our lives.  It’s ironic that in an area where homes are marked by clear boundaries such as fences, hedges and tree lines, our lives often lack the necessary boundaries on our calendar, and we end up paying the price in overloaded schedules and unbearable stress.

In Psalm 103:14, King David recalls the compassion of God who is “mindful of our frame.” In case we need the reminder, we are not invincible.  We can’t do it all. We have limited capacities.  Here’s a question to consider: “Are we mindful of our frames”?  Are we aware of our own limitations and the loads we can bear?  We all have a capacity and each of us must know our Plimsoll Line.

The Plimsoll Line is the line where the hull of a ship meets the water.  This essential mark is a safety measure to prevent ships from being overloaded making them susceptible to sinking in stormy seas.  Like ships, we all have a limit to the load we can carry.  If you feel like you’ve been living in a constant state of feeling overloaded, then you may want to clear the deck!  No one will do this for you.  No one will make you less busy.  Stop complaining how busy you are start doing something about it. Take the initiative to discover and live within your capacity.

The first step is to stop living by the delusion that time off is the solution.  One week off can’t fix fifty-one weeks of craziness.  Start by looking at how you are spending your time “on.”  Some years ago, I came across some diagnostic questions from Tommy Kiedis[1] that helped me discover my Plimsoll Line and so I am sharing them with you.

Lighten Your Load

• Figure out what is on your deck.   What is weighing you down? What are your roles, responsibilities, and commitments?
• Why are you weighed down?  The heaviness may be seasonal due to a work-related project or the overload could be attributed to a lack of priorities or a lack of nerve (i.e., fear of saying no).
• Are there responsibilities and commitments you can off load or even share with others (i.e., carpooling the kids to practice)?

 Once you have examined and cleared your deck, now you will want to draw some lines (boundaries) to keep your deck from becoming overloaded again.

Draw a line with your calendar.
Nothing reveals our priorities like our calendars.  Use your calendar as your friend to budget your time and energy for work, others, and yourself.  I’m one who if I plan it, I usually do it whether it is work, exercise, or rest.

Draw a line around your productive time.
Use time to manage your energy effectively for the important responsibilities in your life. As a morning person, I keep mornings for my sermon preparation which is my most demanding responsibility.  I draw a line around my mornings on my calendar because I am most productive during these crucial hours. I reserve afternoons for administrative affairs when my mind is in its “off-peak” phase.

Draw the line with your life rhythms. 
Your life’s rhythms are the daily/weekly routines and practices that replenish you.  These rhythms may include exercise, hobbies, attending church or even a morning cup of coffee (one of my favorites).  A note for parents:  Maintaining rhythms for your health and the health of your family is wise.  Yes, raising children requires sacrifice but if we are always parenting from a place of scarcity, we aren’t doing our children any favors.  As parents, it’s important we serve as role models for all of life, including caring for ourselves and living life at a manageable pace.

Our lives our much more valuable than roads.  Roads can be repaved and remade.  Our lives cannot. Let’s not give into the tyranny of the urgent at the expense of our souls.  Discovering your Plimsoll Line will protect you and your family.  It will also contribute to smoother sailing on the seas of a busy life.
  
   [1] https://www.leaderslifeandwork.com/

1. It is illogical.
Let’s use the illustration of our road system to prove the point. Our ability to go anywhere in our vehicles and arrive at our intended destination is based upon a truth outside of ourselves—established roadways. We have to follow the roads on the map and GPS. Truth is like our roadway system.  It is established and we choose to search for it and live by it, or not.

Living your truth is like trying to drive where there no roads exist or driving without regard for laws of the road.  One will likely end up lost, or with a damaged car not suitable for “off-road” or even worse, injured and/or even responsible for injuring others in an accident. If everyone lives their truth, the result is mayhem.

2. It nullifies your right to moral outrage.
Live your truth nullifies any right to moral outrage.  Who has the right to determine whose truth is right or wrong? You have no basis to evaluate or criticize anyone’s claims or actions because they are living their truth. We end up living in a society as in the days of the biblical time period of the book of Judges, “everyone did what seemed right to him” (Judges 17:6).

If everyone lives by his or her truth then power decides the victor, which leads to oppression and injustice in society. Think about Hitler, for example. He used power to advance his ghastly and evil agenda. History would tell us that “live your truth” only leads to fragmentation and disintegration of society.

3. It is a burden you weren’t mean to bear.
“Live your truth” appeals to self-expression but it places an enormous burden on the self as the source of truth. Live your truth is wearisome. As French sociologist Alain Ehrenberg points out in The Weariness of the Self, the self­-creating person turns out to be fragile and “weary of her sovereignty.” Is it any wonder that in the age of the self we are more anxious and wearier than ever?

Instead of living your truth, have you considered to live by the truth? In the next post we will address three reasons to live by the truth of Jesus.

Alone for Christmas?
 
Typically, December is a season of cheer but sadly, for many, that isn’t the case.  It’s a time of loneliness not because they are lonely but because they feel lonely. There is a difference.
One can be surrounded by people but still feel lonely.  We can be at the Christmas party with a bunch of people but feel lonely.  We can be sitting in a crowded airport or a crowded beach and feel lonely.  You can be walking the crowded halls of high school or middle school or eating in the cafeteria and feel lonely. 
Have you ever been there? I’m sure we all have at one time or another.
What’s the solution for loneliness? 
The answer may surprise you.  The solution isn’t quantitative- surrounding ourselves with enough people, but qualitative. We need the right kind of presence.  According to Christianity, we were created for presence—to dwell with God, the loving creator of the world, in harmony.
It’s a main story line of the Bible—and it all begins in the garden where God dwelt with Adam and Eve in loving harmony. But they choose to resort to selfishness and they lost access to the continual presence of God.  As a result, Adam and Eve are naked, afraid, alone, and plagued by a sense of detachment.  And so are we. 
Detachment surfaces in that feeling of loneliness.  It surfaces in the introspective question, who am I? It surfaces in the feelings of discomfort with our body and anxious thoughts about how people perceive us.  Will they like me?  Will I be accepted? These are all symptoms of detachment from God.  And the solution is found in the gift of Jesus’ birth.   
That’s the promise we hear from Isaiah the Old Testament prophet who ministered some seven hundred years before Christ.

Therefore, the Lord himself will give you a sign: See, the virgin will conceive, have a son, and name him Immanuel.  -- Isaiah 7:14

The gospel writer Matthew assures us that the ultimate fulfillment of Isaiah 7 is Jesus.
She will give birth to a son, and you are to name him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” Now all this took place to fulfill what was spoken by the Lord through the prophet:
 
See, the virgin will become pregnant
 
and give birth to a son,
and they will name him Immanuel,
 
which is translated “God is with us.”   -- Matthew 1:21-23

If you’ve been feeling lonely, then cheer up because Jesus can make all the difference in our lives.

We can cheer up because Jesus gets us.
 
For we do not have a high priest who is unable to sympathize with our weaknesses, but one who has been tempted in every way as we are, yet without sin.  -- Hebrews 4:15
 
Jesus lived the human experience.  He experienced it all except the sin.  He can relate to you.  He gets you so cheer up.  Because Jesus gets us, He can help us.
We can cheer up because Jesus can help us. 
Therefore, let us approach the throne of grace with boldness, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help us in time of need.   -- Hebrews 4:16

Jesus can help us in our pain, our loss, our depression.  Jesus can help us in our loneliness.
 
We can cheer up because Jesus can now dwell in us. 
 
But to all who did receive him, he gave them the right to be children of God, to those who believe in his name, who were born, not of natural descent, or of the will of the flesh, or of the will of man, but of God. -- John 1:12-13
 
We don’t have to live an existence apart from God.  We don’t have to go to a temple to experience His presence.  Instead, we can invite God to fill our lives.  The question is, have you received Him? To belong you first must believe. And when you do, the presence of God fills your life in a whole new way.
 
 

I don’t enjoy failing. I am sure you don’t either. I love to see my plans come together.

Planning is one of those activities in which we humans engage under the heavens. The Old Testament book, Proverbs, commends the wisdom of planning. Yet, there is a fundamental attitudinal error we can make in our planning: overconfidence.

Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow we will travel to such and such a city and spend a year there and do business and make a profit.”
-- James 1:13

This verse challenges the delusions about our self-sufficiency. You may not make it to that city because your flight was canceled due to a hurricane. Or, you may come down with a 24-hour stomach bug. Your business venture may end up in a financial loss due to a volatile stock market. As much as we’d like to think we’re autonomous, we’re not.

James is quick to adjust our sense of ourselves in God’s world.

Yet you do not know what tomorrow will bring — what your life will be! For you are like vapor that appears for a little while, then vanishes.
 -- James 4:14

Boastful planning discounts one important truth about God: God is all-knowing. It also fails to recognize two humbling truths about ourselves: our knowledge is limited and our existence is fleeting. Sobering, isn’t it? So, now what?

James urges us to adjust our attitude from haughtiness to humility.

Instead, you should say, “If the Lord wills, we will live and do this or that.” 
-- James 4:15

Humility is a thread in the previous passage (James 4:1-10) that James weaves into this section. The humble person recognizes his finite knowledge and fleeting existence and plans while depending upon the Lord. This planning is in accord with the nugget of wisdom of Proverbs 16:9 which says, “A person’s heart plans his way, but the Lord determines his steps.”

Go on making your plans, but avoid the error of boastful planning. Instead, hold loosely to your plans as you hold firmly to Christ who determines your steps. When your hope is in Jesus, you can have confidence because God’s plan always comes together for your good and His glory (Romans 8:28).

Pastor Tim

Do you have trouble with focus from time to time?  If so, this blog is for you.

The importance of focus is emphasized in today’s passage in the book of Philippians.
Philippians is a letter written by Paul, a fundamental leader in the early Church. Paul writes this letter to a church he planted in the Roman colony of Philippi.  He’s writing to encourage them to remain faithful to Jesus and be joyful in the Lord.  Part of his encouragement is this exhortation to focus in Philippians 3.

"Not that I have already reached the goal or am already perfect, but I make every effort to take hold of it because I also have been taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it.
But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus. Therefore, let all of us who are mature think this way. And if you think differently about anything, God will reveal this also to you.  In any case, we should live up to whatever truth we have attained."     -- Philippians 3:12-16

Some people get stuck in the past. Are you one of them?  Let’s find out.

Two types of people stuck in the past:
-Haunted by the Past - past failures/trauma paralyzes them in the present.
-Hall the Past - The "good old days" saying things like, "If I could only go back to high school.  Those were the best days of my life."
 
When we allow the past to haunt us, we deny Jesus’ power to heal and redeem and we miss out on forgiveness.  When we hallow the past, we deny Jesus’ power to effect transformation and we miss out on renewal and change.  When it comes to the past, we need to put our past in its proper place.

How do you relate to your past?
In Philippians 3, the Lord tells us how we are to relate to our past and focus like a champion.  
Focus on who God has called us to be in Christ, rather than on who we once were.   This is exactly what Paul did. And we should too.
Philippians exhorts us to adopt a mature mindset that doesn’t dwell in the past, but looks ahead to the future.

Therefore, let all of us who are mature think this way.     -- Philippians 3:15a

Focus on who God has called us to be in Christ, rather than on who we once were.
For Paul, his track record could appear impressive—one in which anyone might view with envy.

“Although I have reasons for confidence in the flesh. If anyone else thinks he has grounds for confidence in the flesh, I have more: circumcised the eighth day; of the nation of Israel, of the tribe of Benjamin, a Hebrew born of Hebrews; regarding the law, a Pharisee; regarding zeal, persecuting the church; regarding the righteousness that is in the law, blameless.” -- Philippians 3:4-6

Paul trusted in himself-his credentials, his lineage, his religious fervor and achievements seemed on point but it was all pointless because he was LOST.  His religious success blinded him to his real need for the righteousness God required—a righteousness not his own nor one he could achieve, but one from Christ alone.
Paul’s encounter with Jesus on the road to Damascus changed everything. The encounter changed his heart; it changed his life’s call; it changed Paul’s view of his past.

But everything that was a gain to me, I have considered to be a loss because of Christ. 
        -- Philippians 3:7

Paul was able to put his past in its place.  
Have you?  Are you still stuck there haunted by it or are you hallowing it? Paul can look at his past and say, “Yes, that’s part of my story.  It’s who I was prior to following Jesus, but my past doesn’t define my story. I’ve been forgiven and I can move forward with freedom.  I can focus on who God has called me to be in Christ Jesus.
For all of us who are followers of Jesus here today, God’s call on our lives is conformity to Christ.
My goal is to know him and the power of his resurrection and the fellowship of his sufferings, being conformed to his death, assuming that I will somehow reach the resurrection from among the dead. -- Philippians 3:10-11

The Christian life isn’t static but dynamic.  Jesus doesn’t want you to only convert to Him; He wants you to conform to Him.    What are some marks of being conformed to Christ?
 
Here are some broad brushstrokes from Philippians:

• Seek unity with Christians/not divisive (Phil. 2:1-3; 4:2-3)
• Grow in humility (Phil. 2:3)
• Servant’s heart (Phil. 2:4-11)
• Growing in joy (Phil. 4:4 )
• Growing contentment (Phil. 4:11-13)

Each and every day we view every circumstance, whether pleasant or painful as an opportunity to lean into Jesus and grow to be like him.  Instead of resisting God for the things that happen to us, let’s receive them as opportunities to grow to be like Jesus.  What painful circumstance are you in right now?  How might seeing it as an opportunity to grow to be like Jesus change your perspective?
By the way, do you know Paul’s circumstances as he wrote this letter?  He was in prison!  He isn’t complaining—get me out of here!  He’s actually telling the church in Phillipi, “Hey, this is working out great.  I’m sharing Jesus with others!”

Now I want you to know, brothers and sisters, that what has happened to me has actually advanced the gospel, so that it has become known throughout the whole imperial guard, and to everyone else, that my imprisonment is because I am in Christ.
        -- Philippians 1:12-14

You see, our reaction to pain reveals what our goal is.  If we are bitter and we’re resisting God, it shows that our goal is comfort.  On the other hand, if we have a humble posture that receives the circumstance as an opportunity to know Jesus in his sufferings, our focus is in the right place.  To elevate our game as Christians, we have to maintain our focus on who God called us to be in Christ rather than on who we once were.
The danger in the Christian life as we reach a certain place of maturity is to back off—we don’t pursue as hard as we used.  “I’m good.”  
Here’s the problem with that mindset:  it’s wrong! It’s not the focus Jesus wants us to have. The mindset Jesus wants us to have, is one of constant pursuit.

Not that I have already reached the goal or am already perfect, but I make every effort to take hold of it because I also have been taken hold of by Christ Jesus. Brothers and sisters, I do not consider myself to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and reaching forward to what is ahead, I pursue as my goal the prize promised by God’s heavenly call in Christ Jesus.   -- Philippians 3:12-14

Paul is saying, I don’t want to just stay the way I am.  I want to become who God created me to be in Christ Jesus! Remember, one of the greatest dangers in the Christian life is apathy.  We have to fight that inertia.  We must focus on who God called us to be in Christ Jesus rather than who we once were.  We must keep striving for what is ahead.  That’s the language used here…

Not that I have already reached the goal or am already perfect, but I make every effort to take hold of it because I also have been taken hold of by Christ Jesus.
--Philippians 3:12

The verse presents the imagery of a runner who isn’t looking over her shoulder but is straining ahead toward the finish line.  We’ve seen those races in the Olympics where the runners are neck and neck and they strain forward at the finish line!
That’s the heart we are to have when it comes to the race of the Christian life! It’s the focus we are to have again and again.  And that’s hard when we’ve tasted success, that is a level of knowledge and maturity in the Christian life.
Achieving success is satisfying.  But resting on past success inhibits us from progressing. The Olympic Athlete isn’t satisfied with just winning the qualifying heat, they want to win the 100-meter final.  They direct their focus on the next race, and the one after that and so on.  They aren’t satisfied with past and present success. Neither should we in the Christian life.

The Holy Spirit convicted me in this very area.  As a Pastor, it’s easy to rely on past knowledge gained through Bible College, Seminary, and personal study and not; keep progressing in knowledge and maturity. Like Paul, I haven’t arrived yet and neither have you. I want to focus on who God has called me to be in Christ Jesus rather than focus on my past or present self.  And I would ask that you join me in focusing on becoming who God called you to be in Christ Jesus.  
 
I challenge you to sharpen your focus on God.
 
Stop focusing on your past.  See through your past and your circumstances and give them to God. Focus on his power to transform you to the person He created you to be in Christ Jesus.

I am sure of this, that he who started a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus. -- Philippians 1:6

Imagine what would happen if each one of us focuses on who we can become in Christ!
We will become a stronger, more joyful, brighter Christian who puts the past in its proper place.